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Overcoming Depression

"You will one day experience joy that matches this pain. Nothing stays the same,

everything changes." ~Matt Haig

A couple looking out to the sunshine relfecting on the ocean conveying the hope of finding light during depression
How do I know if I am experiencing depression

What is Depression?
 

What you might be feeling: - Miserable or sad. - Unhappy or  disappointed - Lacking confidence or feeling worthless or not good enough. - Irritable, frustrated, overwhelmed or indecisive. - Guilty  - Overwhelmed or indecisive.  How you might be thinking: - I'm a failure - It's my fault - Nothing good ever happens to me - I'm worthless - I'm not worthy of good things - Life's not worth living - People would be better off without me How you might be acting or feeling physically: - Tired all the time. - Feeling sick and run down. - Headaches and muscle pains. - Stomach pain, butterflies or churning gut. - Problems with sleeping. - Loss or change of appetite. - Struggling to concentrate  - Struggling to get things done at work or home or study. - Not going out any more. - Withdrawing from close friends and family.  - Relying on alcohol, sedatives or other substances. - Not doing usual enjoyable activities.

What Causes Depression?

Despite much research investigating the causes of depression, there is still a lot that is unknown. We do know there are a number of things linked to its development, including biological, psychological, social, and environmental elements. Stressful life events - including but not limited to emotional, verbal, physical and sexual abuse and neglect; long-term isolation or loneliness; difficult life changes or transitions; prolonged work stress; loss of a loved one or other forms of grief and loss; relationship conflicts, or financial difficulties. Personal factors - such as a tendency to worry, low self-esteem, perfectionism, tendency to avoid feelings, self-criticism, pessimism, and other negative thinking patterns. ​ Changes in the brain - according to scientific research, depression is not simply the result of a 'chemical imbalance' like having too much or not enough of a particular brain chemical. The way your brain regulates mood can be affected by many things, including the severity of life stressors,  medications, drugs and alcohol use, medical conditions, genetic factors and whether your body is being provided with its basic needs for nutrition, rest, sleep and exercise. While they are not the sole cause, there is substantial research supporting the link between hormonal changes, particularly the drop in estrogen and progesterone after childbirth, and the onset of postnatal depression. Chronic Illness: Physical health conditions, such as chronic pain, cardiovascular disease, diabetes, and cancer, increase the risk of depression. Substance Use: Alcohol and drug abuse or dependence can worsen or trigger depression symptoms. Sleep Disturbances: Insomnia or disrupted sleep patterns are common in depression and can both contribute to and result from depressive symptoms. Cultural and Societal Factors: In many cultures and societies, there is an unbalanced emphasis on self-reliance, perfectionism, and the pursuit of success, which can foster self-criticism and contribute to poor mental health. Pressures related to success, appearance, and gender can heighten stress and increase the risk of depression. Additionally, harmful and inaccurate beliefs about mental health can make individuals feel invalidated, weak or ashamed for experiencing these issues, and may prevent them from seeking help, leading to prolonged and untreated depression.

How Can We Help You Overcome Depression?

Everyone experiences a low mood occasionally, but it is often short-lived and eventually shifts. When it doesn't, it is important to get help. Each person's experience of depression is unique, and the path to overcoming it is not the same for everyone. We take the time to listen to you, understand your experience, and work with you to help you take the best path for you to start feeling better. At the Heart of Therapy, we work to target the roots of your depression symptoms. We take a holistic, trauma-informed, deep-change approach, which includes working with all the factors and issues (including subconscious ones) underlying and potentially driving your symptoms to increase your chances of feeling much better long-term. This can include changes in how you think and feel about yourself, others, and the world around you.

Resources on Depression:

Please feel welcome to take a look at the following source list, which includes textbooks and articles containing some of the research and information underpinning evidence-based approaches to depression treatment. The compilation of this list is still in progress. Thank you for being patient with us as we complete this.

Source list on depression
How can we help you overcome depression
What causes depression
A woman lying in bed, cuddling her dog conveys emotional vulnerability, comfort, and companionship during depression

"Sometimes depression can be seen as a person's system attempting to protect them from deeper emotional pain by shutting down their emotional system."

 ~ Richard Shwartz

 

 

We are a team of heartful and understanding therapists passionate about helping you to meet your therapy goals and overcome depression.  If you are ready to start, please feel welcome to use our online booking portal to choose a time that best suits you.

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